U wanna noe why 3mths always happens to be the best times of yo lives wen u start a R'ship? To begin w, Both yo partner & U are officiali Strangers to Each other. Neither of u noe anything abt'cha partner. That's when it all start's happenin.
Since u guys are complete Strangers, it is a well known fact that U can NEVER be yo True self to yo partner. There's always a Sugar Coat. No doubt abt'it.
The 1st mth, ya'll be all shy to even speak much,
The 2nd mth, is the time of the Lovin deeds,
& by The 3rd, ya'll think u know each other soo well tt ya'll (unknowingli blinded by the Sugar Coat) start Fallin Deeply, Madly, truely in Love (the love cud be for real).
By the 4th mth, the sugar coat starts fadin & u think it's jus part & parcel of a R'ship. But b4 a year even passes by, the Devil is out of the Coat. It goes to both the Partners BOY OR GIRL.
Strangers;Friends;More Then Just Friends;Strangers
But this shudn't be a prob to ppl who hve alr have had a First Love.
Usually wen ya in Love for the first time, Trust Me Seein/Hearin/Speakin from Experience, everyone is CHILDISH!
Fights for the Craziest Craps
Arguments for da Stupidest Shits
& u go to bed w/o knowin why we are even Mad at each other!
Ok wait! b4 i go into the Nasty parts, Let's talk abt the signs tt let us know we are Fallin in Love. =)
Falling in love with someone is a wonderful, intense experience, but it can also be more than a little confusing to someone who’s never really had any romantic ideas in their head before. Love is an easy thing to define if you’re a (wife, husband,) boyfriend or girlfriend who has in your life already, but if you’ve never experienced it before, you might have a hard time figuring what the heck is wrong with you. Are you sick? Are you going crazy? Did someone cast a voodoo curse on you?
Well, probably not. The first early symptoms of being in love can mirror illness or mental instability, sure. But once you learn to really enjoy being in love and get used to the idea of having a little old-fashioned romance in your life, you’ll start to appreciate these weird new symptoms you’ve come down with.
So, are you really in love, or just infatuated? People who fall in love for the first time experience hundreds of unique and individual emotions, thoughts and feelings, but there are a few classic symptoms that most lovesick individuals tend to develop. Check out the list below, and if you have three or more of them, you just might . . . gulp! . . . be in love! =D !
Top Ten Ways to Know You’re In Love
1. You’re in love if you think about them all of the time.
Well yah! This 1's a no-brainer. If U love some1, thy’re gg to be in yo thoughts all da time. In fact, U wn’t be able to get em out of yo head. (Though, this 1 cud also mean tt yo’re just plain nuts!) XP !
2. You’re in love if everything reminds you of them.
Someone asks U to pass something & it reminds U of them. A flock of birds fly overhead & it reminds U of em. U get the picture. Oh, & fo sme reason, when yo’re in love, it seems like every new person u meet (or see on TV or hear a story abt) has the same name as the person yo’re in love w. I dn’t noe why tt is, it just happens. =/
3. You’re in love if you care more about their safety and happiness than you do about your own.
Fo sme weird (& inexplicable) reason, the whole “lookin out fo number 1” thin U’ve bn doin yo whole life desolves away & gets replaced by an overwhelmin urge to mke sure tt special person is as safe, comfortable & happy as possible. No, ’m serious. This's totali becos it's yo number one priority. It’s kinda lyk gettin super powers, in a way; u’d be amazed at wat Lil-Old-U is capable of wen yo’re tryin to protect or provide fo the 1 U Love.
4. You’re in love if you start caring more about your own appearance.
Suddenly, w/o warnin, U find yoself wantin to actually iron the wrinkled jeans tt hve bn sittin in the dryer fo the last 3days be4 u wear em. If yo’re abt to see tt person who u cn’t get out of yo mind, thr suddenly seems to be a whole lot of reflective surfaces ard to check yoself out in.=]
5. You’re in love if you’re actually interested in knowing more about them.
U cn 4get abt the days wen u went hme frm a date rememberin absolutely nth abt the interests (career and dreams) of the person u went out w. Finding out all abt this fantastic person is yo new favorite thang to do. If U cud find a book detailin every min detail of their life, U wudn’t sleep (or eat) until U read every last paragraph.
6. You’re in love if you want to impress them.
U’ve always tried to be modest, bt suddenly U feel lyk U’re a politician fighting to win the most important election ever in the history of the universe. U mke sure tt the faded newspaper article abt U winning yo third-grade spelling bee is left nonchalantly on the coffeetable wen thy cme to visit. =D
7. You’re in love if you aren’t as tight with your money or time anymore.
Thr ws a time wen the idea of shelling out yo hard-earned money to buy some1 dinner or a gift wud hve horrified U. Sure, U wud buy an occasional round fo yo frends (or brin grandma flowers on her birthday), but spendin any mo money than absolutely necessary just wsn’t gg to happen. But nw, no price seems too high as long as it mkes tt special some1 happy.
8. You’re in love if hanging out with your friends just isn’t as appealing any more.
Rmb wen U & yo Frends made fun of the former buddy who ditched yo Gang to Hang out w their new boyfriend/girlfriend? & wen the thought of abandoning yo Frends to spend time w a member of the opposite sex seemed lyk sacrelige? Well U cn try to deny it al U wan, but U’re findin yoself constantly thinkin abt bein w tt special someone . . . even wen U’re surrounded by yo buddies!
9. You’re in love if commitment is actually starting to sound like something you could stand.
What?!!, U commit to smethin tt requires U to be faithful & responsible? Oh, the HORROR! What strange, evil spell has bn cast upon U tt wud actually mke U excited abt a long-term R'ship (or even marriage) with someone? Did sme1 slip smethin into yo drink? Are U gg insane? No. U’re probably in love, knucklehead! XD !
10. You’re in love if you just aren’t noticing other members of the opposite sex or of the Same.
Oh, the ppl U used to stare at are still there . . . U jus aint noticin em nimo. Fo sme bizarre reason, tt special sme1 has suddenly become infinitely mo attractive to U than any other person on the face of the planet! Ppl who U used to think were gd-lookin suddenly became pale in comparison to the 1 U’ve found yoself Fallin in Love w.
Well, This are Sme, tt i wud consider Top Ten Ways To Know If You're Falling In Love. But the Love Sickness Nvr last Forever in A R'ship tt starts of a bit Fraud. Esp if it's yo 1st. It's Easy to Say I Love U, but it takes Both of em to get the R'ship gg strong. Like thy always say; No point tryna clap wen the other Hand doesn't Co-operate, all the efforts will be wasted & nth is succeeded.
ok ppl, i'll get back to ya'll soon. Gonna Snooze for a While! I'm in da Mood to talkk abt LOVEEEEEEE !
ImissJo!
xoxo